I’m quoted in this article as saying, “sex is the least talked about thing in relationships.” This fact is usually reassuring to couples that enter the therapy room and hear it from me. Most of us grew up in homes (mine included) where sex was simply not discussed, much less acknowledged as a natural and healthy part of life. This article addresses the use of erotic audios as a creative form of outercourse. Like enjoying a delicious new entree in our favorite restaurant, novel activities in the bedroom can wet our sexual appetites.
https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a26796767/erotic-audiobooks/